Sunday, June 26, 2011
Dance Class is Super AWESOME!
Well I had my first dance class today! It was SO freaking intense! We learned all of Lovegame today and it was so fast paced which is exactly what I wanted to do. The first 20 min was an intense workout in itself! Hahaha. We are doing six songs so we are pretty much learning a new dance every week! Yayyyyyy I love it! We are doing Judas, Bad Romance, Telephone, Lovegame, Just Dance, and maybe Born this Way. I can NOT wait to go back next week in fact I am probably going to get back to practicing here now and continue doing 30 Day Shred! Yayyyy.
Thursday, June 23, 2011
Number 23 and HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
23. I am beautiful.
I think almost every woman out there has issues with their bodies and beauty. Its hard for me to really accept it for myself as well. But you know, I am. I shouldn't let some guys put me down about it. Plus I love several features about myself. I love my smile, my eyes, and my face. Granted I'm not as happy with my body but I'm ready to fix that and stop complaining about my body and do something about it. Plus confidence really shows when you feel good about yourself. While I may not about my weight at the moment... I still feel pretty damn confident that I know I do look pretty good. ;) I just wish girls would see that they are all beautiful in their own special ways. The only reason why they don't get boyfriends isn't because they aren't beautiful, or they are too fat. Its because they lack so much confidence in themselves that it makes them appear unattractive. And believe me I know this. The most attractive guys in the world become ugly as hell if their personality sucks. Its physical attraction at first all the time, then after that its all about the personality and how they carry themselves. It goes back to that whole thing where if a guy thinks he isn't good enough its cause he doesn't believe in himself thus making him more unnattractive... in my opinion at least. I can't stand guys who are just really mean and obnoxious as well as guys who are so freaking hard on themselves. Can't they just get over themselves. It has nothing to do with them its about the relationships they have had and the chemistry between the two people.
In other news its my Birthday! Yayyyyyy! Even better I get all the way until tomorrow afternoon off so I get to go to Delaware for my birthday with my bff and any one else who is there! Yippee! I can't wait to go out! We picked somewhere to go tomorrow night for my bday and I hope it pans out and turns into a good night. :D yayyyyy. Well I'm going to get packed and ready to go to Delaware! I can't wait to see my friends again :)
I think almost every woman out there has issues with their bodies and beauty. Its hard for me to really accept it for myself as well. But you know, I am. I shouldn't let some guys put me down about it. Plus I love several features about myself. I love my smile, my eyes, and my face. Granted I'm not as happy with my body but I'm ready to fix that and stop complaining about my body and do something about it. Plus confidence really shows when you feel good about yourself. While I may not about my weight at the moment... I still feel pretty damn confident that I know I do look pretty good. ;) I just wish girls would see that they are all beautiful in their own special ways. The only reason why they don't get boyfriends isn't because they aren't beautiful, or they are too fat. Its because they lack so much confidence in themselves that it makes them appear unattractive. And believe me I know this. The most attractive guys in the world become ugly as hell if their personality sucks. Its physical attraction at first all the time, then after that its all about the personality and how they carry themselves. It goes back to that whole thing where if a guy thinks he isn't good enough its cause he doesn't believe in himself thus making him more unnattractive... in my opinion at least. I can't stand guys who are just really mean and obnoxious as well as guys who are so freaking hard on themselves. Can't they just get over themselves. It has nothing to do with them its about the relationships they have had and the chemistry between the two people.
In other news its my Birthday! Yayyyyyy! Even better I get all the way until tomorrow afternoon off so I get to go to Delaware for my birthday with my bff and any one else who is there! Yippee! I can't wait to go out! We picked somewhere to go tomorrow night for my bday and I hope it pans out and turns into a good night. :D yayyyyy. Well I'm going to get packed and ready to go to Delaware! I can't wait to see my friends again :)
Wednesday, June 22, 2011
Number 22
22. I am strong.
I know I'm strong because I have had to do several things that felt like they would shatter my world but they all in all were the best decisions that I ever made. I am also strong because I have perservered through several less-than-desirable situations. I have been through sexual assault, suffered the aftermath of said assault, several mentally abusive boyfriends, and probably what seems like one of the toughest master's programs out there with the advisor from hell and yet here I am... (almost) unphased, still optimistic about life and still living a normal (as it can get) life. I have never forgotten what people have done to me, I have never forgotten the fear, anger, hurt, and miserable-ness of my past. But the most important thing is that I kept going and I don't EVER let it bring me down. I never let anything stop me. In high school I did want to end it all because I felt like I wasn't worth it, I felt like I was a no one, no one cared about me and I'd never be good at anything and that I will always be second best to everyone. Well I pulled out of that rut clearly. I have never thought about ending it since. Because I know I am worth it, and I know I will be worth it to someone someday. I know that I do have a purpose in this world. I'm not sure what I will accomplish but someday I will know. I know I am meant to do some great things, whether its teaching high school children sciences, teaching college undergrads, or doing important research... I dunno. But I just know that when I find it... I will know exactly what I am supposed to do.
Day 5 with advisor still not here. She is supposed to come in but honestly I have yet to see her and she didn't email me with a possible meeting time. If lunch time rolls around and I don't see her I guess I will head home. This is so frustrating I have no idea what I can be doing while waiting for her to get back I wish there was stuff I COULD be doing but she hasn't given me anything to work on. :-\
I did the first day of 30 Day Shred yesterday... and OUCH! I about puked right in the middle of it so I know I'm doing it right at least. My abs are KILLING me at the moment, it hurts to laugh and sneeze but its fine I know eventually I will lose the weight that I want.
Now: 175 lbs
Goal: 150 lbs
Well birthday is tomorrow! Going to have to figure out if I'm going to do anything tomorrow night or if I'm just going to wait for Friday festivities :P Hahaha.
I know I'm strong because I have had to do several things that felt like they would shatter my world but they all in all were the best decisions that I ever made. I am also strong because I have perservered through several less-than-desirable situations. I have been through sexual assault, suffered the aftermath of said assault, several mentally abusive boyfriends, and probably what seems like one of the toughest master's programs out there with the advisor from hell and yet here I am... (almost) unphased, still optimistic about life and still living a normal (as it can get) life. I have never forgotten what people have done to me, I have never forgotten the fear, anger, hurt, and miserable-ness of my past. But the most important thing is that I kept going and I don't EVER let it bring me down. I never let anything stop me. In high school I did want to end it all because I felt like I wasn't worth it, I felt like I was a no one, no one cared about me and I'd never be good at anything and that I will always be second best to everyone. Well I pulled out of that rut clearly. I have never thought about ending it since. Because I know I am worth it, and I know I will be worth it to someone someday. I know that I do have a purpose in this world. I'm not sure what I will accomplish but someday I will know. I know I am meant to do some great things, whether its teaching high school children sciences, teaching college undergrads, or doing important research... I dunno. But I just know that when I find it... I will know exactly what I am supposed to do.
Day 5 with advisor still not here. She is supposed to come in but honestly I have yet to see her and she didn't email me with a possible meeting time. If lunch time rolls around and I don't see her I guess I will head home. This is so frustrating I have no idea what I can be doing while waiting for her to get back I wish there was stuff I COULD be doing but she hasn't given me anything to work on. :-\
I did the first day of 30 Day Shred yesterday... and OUCH! I about puked right in the middle of it so I know I'm doing it right at least. My abs are KILLING me at the moment, it hurts to laugh and sneeze but its fine I know eventually I will lose the weight that I want.
Now: 175 lbs
Goal: 150 lbs
Well birthday is tomorrow! Going to have to figure out if I'm going to do anything tomorrow night or if I'm just going to wait for Friday festivities :P Hahaha.
Tuesday, June 21, 2011
Number 21
21. I am weird and unique. There is no one else like me.
Hence the sarcastic nature of my blog title. I mean how many girls do you know going for their masters and have an intense interest in animal nutrition and goes out to hunt insects for their collection. And who also has six rats, a gecko, a mouse, and a kitty cat!? Also no one has ever been through my experiences and that makes me different and unique as well. There isn't another Becca like me any where on this planet. I am me and I have my own flaws, stunning features, goods, and bads. And I'm proud of all of them! :D
So I did it... I bit the bullet and bought the 30 Day Shred... I am hoping that by keeping up on here I will keep up with it so feel free to cheer me on. I will add my measurements here too to keep a log and will try to log every Tuesday what is going on. I am determined to lose this weight. I am even going to stop drinking soda! I got to... it probably has me so freaking bloated its not even funny.
Also its the first day of Summer!!!! Happy Litha Everyone! So close to my freaking birthday! I'm so excited it doesn't even feel like my birthday though. Cause I feel like i won't have anything to do or whoever to celebrate it with. :( stupid small apartment. I should just pick a bar and say we are going show up please haha.
ALSO... I bit the bullet again and just signed up for that Lady Gaga dance class... I'm nervous but at the same time I can NOT wait to start. I really hope its a challenge I want to start to dance again... I miss it so freaking much and plus anything with Gaga related can't be boring :P Hahaha and I even have a recital! Yayyyyyyyy hehehe.
Well I think thats enough! I will talk to you later readers! Cheer me on as I lose weight this summer!
Hence the sarcastic nature of my blog title. I mean how many girls do you know going for their masters and have an intense interest in animal nutrition and goes out to hunt insects for their collection. And who also has six rats, a gecko, a mouse, and a kitty cat!? Also no one has ever been through my experiences and that makes me different and unique as well. There isn't another Becca like me any where on this planet. I am me and I have my own flaws, stunning features, goods, and bads. And I'm proud of all of them! :D
So I did it... I bit the bullet and bought the 30 Day Shred... I am hoping that by keeping up on here I will keep up with it so feel free to cheer me on. I will add my measurements here too to keep a log and will try to log every Tuesday what is going on. I am determined to lose this weight. I am even going to stop drinking soda! I got to... it probably has me so freaking bloated its not even funny.
Also its the first day of Summer!!!! Happy Litha Everyone! So close to my freaking birthday! I'm so excited it doesn't even feel like my birthday though. Cause I feel like i won't have anything to do or whoever to celebrate it with. :( stupid small apartment. I should just pick a bar and say we are going show up please haha.
ALSO... I bit the bullet again and just signed up for that Lady Gaga dance class... I'm nervous but at the same time I can NOT wait to start. I really hope its a challenge I want to start to dance again... I miss it so freaking much and plus anything with Gaga related can't be boring :P Hahaha and I even have a recital! Yayyyyyyyy hehehe.
Well I think thats enough! I will talk to you later readers! Cheer me on as I lose weight this summer!
Monday, June 20, 2011
Number 18-20 and rant
18. I have loved and lost... and I'm not afraid to do it again!
I'm not going to beat around the bush and say oh em gee your the first person I have ever loved blah blah blah blah. No, I have been in love once maybe twice in my life time. Both have hurt me deeply whether it was them being unsure of their feelings for me or them becoming a little more than obssessed with us being together and taking it to new levels of crazy. But you know is that going to prevent me from wanting to love another? No it makes me want it again and more permanent this time. I love that feeling of love. Am I afraid of loving someone and losing them? For sure! But is that going to stop me? Hell no!
19. Music is a HUGE part of my life.
Damn straight it is. I have been playing instruments since elementary school from piano to oboe and flute/piccolo in between. I also love dancing to any kind of music in any way shape or form. Music is always always there to make me feel better. When I'm angry I listen to angry music and get it out, when I'm sad I put on some tunes that make me get it out. But then I always follow up with music to make me feel better in any situation. Some great examples was during this last break up, the song "Broken Pieces" by Apocalyptica made me realize I was doing the right thing by leaving him. I swear that song was written for me as well as "End of Me". Also when I'm feeling down on myself I listen to "Sing" by My Chemical Romance and that makes me realize that I gotta keep trucking and I can do it. Going back to dancing though... I gotta sign up for that Lady Gaga class.. I'm just so nervous that either I will have too much going on to really do it or it will be a waste of money I can't decide... >.< I know I should just do it!
20. I am capable of almost anything I set my mind to.
The only reason why I don't say always anything is because I did fail on my last project for my master's degree. But I have gotten into two schools that normally wouldn't take another look at me but because I worked my ass off and sold myself to them they took me on. And I am very proud of that accomplishment for getting into UD even though I wasn't the best student in high school (granted i had a 3.7 but at my school that is not fantastic) and I got into UMD even though it took me 3 times to get the right scores on the GRE. I can do it. I also did my literature review, I did projects as an undergrad, I even got paid to go to graduate school. If i want to do it... chances are I will suceed as long as I focus!
So we have confirmation... D is ok (granted he didn't tell me but I see he has been active on POF :-\). So I am super relieved that he is ok cause I was worried. But now... I'm really hurt by all this... I started to trust him and I guess he just lied to me... that or he is a bigger commitment-o-phobe than I have ever met. But you know what... whatever... I will eventually find someone who is ready to take that next step... even if it means joining Eharmony. I think if i ever join it will be eharmony. Cause that site is meant for serious relationships and honestly thats what I'm ready for. :)
Well my advisor is still out sick. :( I am so sad about it and while I'm praying she pulls through soon and such... this is taking a major toll on my research and degree... I'm wondering if this is the universe's way of saying YO YOU REALLY NEED TO SWITCH. :-\ ugh I can't deal with all this crap. If only my master's degree hasn't been so complicated as it has been. Some time I will eventually get this stupid degree and I will eventually get to see a career counselor and eventually figure out what exactly I am meant to do in my life and who I am meant to be with... I'm just impatient and I want to know now though :P
Had a great weekend at the Cabin with Daddy and Kelsey. :) Lots of love and fun and well hootin and hollerin! I want to go back to the cabin already. :(
Ok readers... until next time :)
I'm not going to beat around the bush and say oh em gee your the first person I have ever loved blah blah blah blah. No, I have been in love once maybe twice in my life time. Both have hurt me deeply whether it was them being unsure of their feelings for me or them becoming a little more than obssessed with us being together and taking it to new levels of crazy. But you know is that going to prevent me from wanting to love another? No it makes me want it again and more permanent this time. I love that feeling of love. Am I afraid of loving someone and losing them? For sure! But is that going to stop me? Hell no!
19. Music is a HUGE part of my life.
Damn straight it is. I have been playing instruments since elementary school from piano to oboe and flute/piccolo in between. I also love dancing to any kind of music in any way shape or form. Music is always always there to make me feel better. When I'm angry I listen to angry music and get it out, when I'm sad I put on some tunes that make me get it out. But then I always follow up with music to make me feel better in any situation. Some great examples was during this last break up, the song "Broken Pieces" by Apocalyptica made me realize I was doing the right thing by leaving him. I swear that song was written for me as well as "End of Me". Also when I'm feeling down on myself I listen to "Sing" by My Chemical Romance and that makes me realize that I gotta keep trucking and I can do it. Going back to dancing though... I gotta sign up for that Lady Gaga class.. I'm just so nervous that either I will have too much going on to really do it or it will be a waste of money I can't decide... >.< I know I should just do it!
20. I am capable of almost anything I set my mind to.
The only reason why I don't say always anything is because I did fail on my last project for my master's degree. But I have gotten into two schools that normally wouldn't take another look at me but because I worked my ass off and sold myself to them they took me on. And I am very proud of that accomplishment for getting into UD even though I wasn't the best student in high school (granted i had a 3.7 but at my school that is not fantastic) and I got into UMD even though it took me 3 times to get the right scores on the GRE. I can do it. I also did my literature review, I did projects as an undergrad, I even got paid to go to graduate school. If i want to do it... chances are I will suceed as long as I focus!
So we have confirmation... D is ok (granted he didn't tell me but I see he has been active on POF :-\). So I am super relieved that he is ok cause I was worried. But now... I'm really hurt by all this... I started to trust him and I guess he just lied to me... that or he is a bigger commitment-o-phobe than I have ever met. But you know what... whatever... I will eventually find someone who is ready to take that next step... even if it means joining Eharmony. I think if i ever join it will be eharmony. Cause that site is meant for serious relationships and honestly thats what I'm ready for. :)
Well my advisor is still out sick. :( I am so sad about it and while I'm praying she pulls through soon and such... this is taking a major toll on my research and degree... I'm wondering if this is the universe's way of saying YO YOU REALLY NEED TO SWITCH. :-\ ugh I can't deal with all this crap. If only my master's degree hasn't been so complicated as it has been. Some time I will eventually get this stupid degree and I will eventually get to see a career counselor and eventually figure out what exactly I am meant to do in my life and who I am meant to be with... I'm just impatient and I want to know now though :P
Had a great weekend at the Cabin with Daddy and Kelsey. :) Lots of love and fun and well hootin and hollerin! I want to go back to the cabin already. :(
Ok readers... until next time :)
Friday, June 17, 2011
Number 17
17. I don't need a man, but I do want to share my life with someone.
I don't think that I need a man but life is meant for two people to be together and share their experiences with each other, get through the tough times, get married, and have children. I have only recently realized "I don't need a man but I want one". I used to be so determined to date the next guy that came my way with a half decent personality and I'd over look the flaws and try to see the good in them. Well we all know how THAT goes hahaha. I am so happy for couples that I know who are getting married, engaged, etc some are even having kids and I think that is so crazy and well to be bluntly honest I'm super jealous (granted I can DEFINITELY wait til I've been married for a few years before babies come into the picture haha). I keep hoping that maybe someone will show their true feelings for me and treat me well.
D has dropped off the planet and well... I dunno if he is hurt or if he is just going to be a boy and not text me back ever again *shakes head* honestly though... whatever... if he wants to be immature and not text me ever again and hope i'll just disappear...thats his own damn problem not mine. I'm not some person who is going to get upset if you tell me your not interested... I can handle it trust me even if I like you. Because I'm not the begging type for a relationship... well at least not any more that is. I'm not going to beg someone for a relationship with me if they don't want it. If a marriage were to ever work out... it has to be wanted by both parties for sure not just one hahaha.
Come on Prince Charming... if you can come out of the woodworks and admit your feelings for me and I to you... I will be the happiest girl in the world :D.
Ok readers well I'm going to disappear until Sunday night! I get to go to the cabin this weekend for fathers day with my wonderful dad and sister :). Haven't been in sooooo long so I'm really excited. I think I'm going to take all my bug hunting equipment and try to get some cool stuff... oh and take my camera as well. :) I guess I should get packing.
Advisor is still in the hospital, please send prayers and positive energy her way!
I don't think that I need a man but life is meant for two people to be together and share their experiences with each other, get through the tough times, get married, and have children. I have only recently realized "I don't need a man but I want one". I used to be so determined to date the next guy that came my way with a half decent personality and I'd over look the flaws and try to see the good in them. Well we all know how THAT goes hahaha. I am so happy for couples that I know who are getting married, engaged, etc some are even having kids and I think that is so crazy and well to be bluntly honest I'm super jealous (granted I can DEFINITELY wait til I've been married for a few years before babies come into the picture haha). I keep hoping that maybe someone will show their true feelings for me and treat me well.
D has dropped off the planet and well... I dunno if he is hurt or if he is just going to be a boy and not text me back ever again *shakes head* honestly though... whatever... if he wants to be immature and not text me ever again and hope i'll just disappear...thats his own damn problem not mine. I'm not some person who is going to get upset if you tell me your not interested... I can handle it trust me even if I like you. Because I'm not the begging type for a relationship... well at least not any more that is. I'm not going to beg someone for a relationship with me if they don't want it. If a marriage were to ever work out... it has to be wanted by both parties for sure not just one hahaha.
Come on Prince Charming... if you can come out of the woodworks and admit your feelings for me and I to you... I will be the happiest girl in the world :D.
Ok readers well I'm going to disappear until Sunday night! I get to go to the cabin this weekend for fathers day with my wonderful dad and sister :). Haven't been in sooooo long so I'm really excited. I think I'm going to take all my bug hunting equipment and try to get some cool stuff... oh and take my camera as well. :) I guess I should get packing.
Advisor is still in the hospital, please send prayers and positive energy her way!
Thursday, June 16, 2011
Number 16
16. I get stressed too easily.
This is super true. I get so worked up over nothing all the time. I wish I wouldn't put such a crazy burden on myself all the time and be such a damn perfectionist. Its like I expect everything to be perfect, everything goes right, people do what they say they were going to do, etc etc. But life isn't that way and I know it so I dunno why i expect absolute perfection out of everything. I kinda had a rough morning and I have been overthinking things which is one of my worst habits but I should just relax and what I am overthinking about is probably nothing.
My advisor is still in the hospital so another meeting goes down the drain. I guess I am going to the cabin this weekend after all I think. She needs to rest and just not come back until Monday and then we can regroup and tackle this thing head on. She wanted the experiements to start TUESDAY!?!?! Ummmm where were we gonna allocate 1600 birds by TUESDAY?? I am pretty sure it wouldn't happen. Good gracious.
Well fingers crossed that my evening goes better. I hate rainy days, they always make me so depressed. :-\ Maybe I will play some video games tonight. I am kinda at a loss of what I am feeling right now. Its very weird... I blame the weather and the craziness of this project. *sigh* I just want this stuff to go away and I can be back to giggly happy Becca.
This is super true. I get so worked up over nothing all the time. I wish I wouldn't put such a crazy burden on myself all the time and be such a damn perfectionist. Its like I expect everything to be perfect, everything goes right, people do what they say they were going to do, etc etc. But life isn't that way and I know it so I dunno why i expect absolute perfection out of everything. I kinda had a rough morning and I have been overthinking things which is one of my worst habits but I should just relax and what I am overthinking about is probably nothing.
My advisor is still in the hospital so another meeting goes down the drain. I guess I am going to the cabin this weekend after all I think. She needs to rest and just not come back until Monday and then we can regroup and tackle this thing head on. She wanted the experiements to start TUESDAY!?!?! Ummmm where were we gonna allocate 1600 birds by TUESDAY?? I am pretty sure it wouldn't happen. Good gracious.
Well fingers crossed that my evening goes better. I hate rainy days, they always make me so depressed. :-\ Maybe I will play some video games tonight. I am kinda at a loss of what I am feeling right now. Its very weird... I blame the weather and the craziness of this project. *sigh* I just want this stuff to go away and I can be back to giggly happy Becca.
Wednesday, June 15, 2011
Just a tad late...
I decided what would be really fun and kind of self-empowering would be to write 23 things for each year I have been here that I learned on each day til I turn 23. That being said i now need to put down the 15 for up to today. The goal is to come to terms with some things as well as try to make plans to fix any bad things.
So I'm supposed to go to the cabin this weekend but I'm not sure if I can or not because of this project. We got the numbers and stuff all done but now we gotta formulate diets :-\ urgh not looking forward to that. I really hope I can go to the cabin this weekend I really miss it and my dad and sister.
In other news... I told D how I'm feeling and I'm glad I did. We will just have to see what comes out of this friendship :).
- I am thrifty. Not a bad thing although I could definitely stand to learn to extreme coupon.
- I am lazy and a procrastinator... this entry is a great example! :P Hahahaha. I need to learn to be more on top of things and not leave it to the last minute... otherwise I will stress myself out to no end hahaha.
- I am too nice to people. I don't tell people like it is all the time, I have been getting better at it and tried to not lie even if it'd hurt their feelings... but at least I don't gossip behind their backs! :)
- I care too much about what people think of me. This I have worked on ALOT after being single for a few months now. I have slowly begun teaching myself people won't always like me and I gotta get over it and adopt the attitude its their loss or its no skin off my nose cause I don't want any one around me who doesn't like me. Hahaha I mean makes sense... right?
- I am addicted to caffeine. I drink WAY too much soda and it also has to do with the carbonation. I know it makes me bloated and I know what happens when I stop but its just so damn good to drink! I need to get back onto water... so to encourage that... I bought a costco membership so I can go and buy the cases of water to encourage water drinking. I need to do it... if not for appearance for my health.
- I love video games. They are such a great relaxing way for me to just be someone else. I love that they make me frustrated and give me something to do. I love being an assassin, a zombie killer, a pinata, etc etc. Its so much fun to let your imagination run rampant and blow off some steam in the process.
- I love asking why and how. I'm a naturally curious girl. If something is left unknown I puzzle over it for hours and hours until I either exhaust myself or find the answer. I think this is why I make a great scientist personally :). This goes for any puzzles too... I love trying to figure out things and brain teasers and the like.
- I am a klutz. I mean really who trips on a bump in carpet while skipping and comes out with a concussion and crutches for a week?
- I am graceful. When I'm concentrating like when doing anything musically related I can be really graceful when I'm on task... or so I have been told.
- I am too careful/perfectionist. I am a natural worry wart and I try to do everything to a T even if it takes a long time. Recently though I have been trying to lessen the pressure on myself. So what if I don't do the assays perfect? At least I was pretty damn close! I also worry that the worst will always happen but I like to believe that means I prepare for everything.
- I am fortunate. I really am. I have a lot going for me, and sometimes its hard to see but once you befriend those less fortunate than you... its a real eye opener I think. I am very thankful to have all the things that I do have.
- I am open-minded. I think that everyone has a good arguement on most issues. There are select issues where I think the opposition is just plain wrong but with good arguements I can accept and agree with on certain degrees. Everyone has their own beliefs... we are only human... it'd be boring as hell if we all had the same beliefs.
- I am intelligent. This one has always been a struggle for me because my grades are never the best but thats just me... grades don't grade my intelligence level. If I wasn't intelligent then I wouldn't be where I am now and doing the things I'm doing and excelling in this super difficult program.
- Everything happened in my life for a reason and it was a learning experience. "Good judgement comes from experience, even though experience can come from bad judgement." A lot of stuff has happened to me in my past, and rather than dwell on that stuff I learned from the situations and use what I learned to assess situations and such.
- I have a connection to animals. I really do. I almost feel like I can talk to them. Crazy? Maybe I am but I really feel like sometimes they can tell me what is going on. I love interacting with animals even if they are mean. Dumble is a great example... rather than do horrible things to me after he bit me and blame him I blamed myself for not reading his warning signs and I helped him through his aggression and now he is fine.
So I'm supposed to go to the cabin this weekend but I'm not sure if I can or not because of this project. We got the numbers and stuff all done but now we gotta formulate diets :-\ urgh not looking forward to that. I really hope I can go to the cabin this weekend I really miss it and my dad and sister.
In other news... I told D how I'm feeling and I'm glad I did. We will just have to see what comes out of this friendship :).
Tuesday, June 14, 2011
First Motorcycle Ride!
So last night I was supposed to hang out with one of the guys I had been talking to but unfortunately he had some work to catch up on and I encouraged him to get that done and we could hang out another time. And I mean it I feel like guys are so freaked about cancelling that it will have a negative impact on what I think of them and it really doesn't... if you got shit to do... seriously go do it! I expect you to let me go do my shit when stuff comes up for me so its only fair for me to give you the same courtesy. :P
ANYWHO... so I ended up chatting with D, another guy I have been talking to and he told me it would be a fantastic night for me to experience my first motorcycle ride. Of course me being the scaredy cat that I am I'm freaking out but I'm trying to act all tough cause I wanted him to like me but I was so scared and I'm sure I let some of it show. But he was great! He gave me a jacket with protective padding built in, gloves, and a full on helment so I felt a little better and he made me wear boots and long pants so I knew he knew what he was doing and was looking out for my safety to make me feel comfortable. So I get out there and I'm shaking in my boots (literally) at whats going to happen and well I just did it. And man am I glad I did it :). It was SOOOOOOOOOO much fun! I have no idea how long we were out there or where we were (he revealed later he got lost at one point hahaha) but I LOVED it. It was fantastic scenery and a great experience! It was definitely not as scary as I was imagining it would be and he was good to ride in residential where he could stop and make sure I was doing ok before doing the country roads. Hahahaha. And all the houses we were passing I wanted! Hahahaha I really liked that area out there! A lot of homes I would love to one day have with a family hahaha.
Onto OTHER good news I got the official word that my literature review was finally acceptable! *YAY* I am SO freaking excited. I am going to meet with her tomorrow about my upcoming project and what I am going to do. Ahhhhhhh yayyyyyy! I'm so happy i finally have stuff going great for me! I believe I am going to stay with this advisor unless some crazy ass opportunity comes forward for me :P.
More good news... I am going to start a dance class I believe here soon where its centered around Lady Gaga and Hip Hop which is super exciting to me! I miss dancing so much! I can't wait to get started on it. But I haven't signed up yet, I can't decide if I want to go to a few drop ins just to make sure it isn't too easy... I hate not so challenging classes and I don't want to spend 200 if I'm going to be bored and not get a good work out... I'd rather do a crap ton of drop in classes and what not :P.
Ahhhhhh its so good! Off to go do some after the fact research and such and then go home and play some more assassins creed :P
ANYWHO... so I ended up chatting with D, another guy I have been talking to and he told me it would be a fantastic night for me to experience my first motorcycle ride. Of course me being the scaredy cat that I am I'm freaking out but I'm trying to act all tough cause I wanted him to like me but I was so scared and I'm sure I let some of it show. But he was great! He gave me a jacket with protective padding built in, gloves, and a full on helment so I felt a little better and he made me wear boots and long pants so I knew he knew what he was doing and was looking out for my safety to make me feel comfortable. So I get out there and I'm shaking in my boots (literally) at whats going to happen and well I just did it. And man am I glad I did it :). It was SOOOOOOOOOO much fun! I have no idea how long we were out there or where we were (he revealed later he got lost at one point hahaha) but I LOVED it. It was fantastic scenery and a great experience! It was definitely not as scary as I was imagining it would be and he was good to ride in residential where he could stop and make sure I was doing ok before doing the country roads. Hahahaha. And all the houses we were passing I wanted! Hahahaha I really liked that area out there! A lot of homes I would love to one day have with a family hahaha.
Onto OTHER good news I got the official word that my literature review was finally acceptable! *YAY* I am SO freaking excited. I am going to meet with her tomorrow about my upcoming project and what I am going to do. Ahhhhhhh yayyyyyy! I'm so happy i finally have stuff going great for me! I believe I am going to stay with this advisor unless some crazy ass opportunity comes forward for me :P.
More good news... I am going to start a dance class I believe here soon where its centered around Lady Gaga and Hip Hop which is super exciting to me! I miss dancing so much! I can't wait to get started on it. But I haven't signed up yet, I can't decide if I want to go to a few drop ins just to make sure it isn't too easy... I hate not so challenging classes and I don't want to spend 200 if I'm going to be bored and not get a good work out... I'd rather do a crap ton of drop in classes and what not :P.
Ahhhhhh its so good! Off to go do some after the fact research and such and then go home and play some more assassins creed :P
Monday, June 13, 2011
O_O Ok enoughs enough...
Dating (aka going out to eat all the freaking time) seems to have had a negative effect on my weight. I know I'm not FAT I mean I am pretty damn average if I do say so myself (and what weight/height charts tell me I am smack dab on average). BUT personally... this is unacceptable. So beginning today June 13th, 2011 I am going to make sure I start working out daily. I packed a pair of gym shorts and I am going to make myself go to my fitness center before even going back to my apartment... I figure if I get into my apartment I'm doomed and won't do anything even though I do have a few work out videos. Now I just gotta decide if I want to just start going to the gym to run or bike or if I want to go onto a program like crossfit, P90X, or 30 Day shred. My problem is the eating habits I have as far as pickiness. Being "allergic" (we'll just say that cause I dunno what it is) to fruits and veggies really sucks... I have tried to eat them but I always end up getting sick! Whatever hahaha.
Basically my goal is to get rid of the tummy and leg fat without getting rid of the two B's (boobs and butt :P). But of course its hard to trim down and not affect one or the other. Hmmm off to do some hardcore research on what program I should do...
Man I am SPACING today I was supposed to do some other stuff and I totally get sidetracked hahaha. I have totally been all "ok so if I do... BUTTERFLY! ^_^" hahahaha. Of course no butterflies in my office (or outside its COLD today) but you get my picture hahaha.
I had an... interesting weekend hahaha. I went out Friday night for the first time with girls in like forever to a party then we went out to a dance club where I proceeded to realize that D.C. is mostly girls compared to Philly and not as fun... but then some SUPER drunk guy came up and was dancing with me and proceeded to grab me and try to take me outside!?!?! Um NOT ok dude! Luckily I got down and got my friend to come help me out and we escaped without injuries hahahahah. But then we were on the subway and we were talking to an extremely drunk dude about his girlfriend and how he loves her but she is being a bitch... oh my we were attracting the weirdos that night hahaha. Then I went out to Annapolis on Saturday and we proceeded to find out that they don't accept juvenile licenses there which is lame cause in VA you don't get a new license until 24 or 25... so I still got a few more years to go! Hahaha. Oh well that just meant we went back and drank at the house :D hahahaha. Not a big deal :). I also discovered recently that dating older guys isn't bad or weird but I guess it depends on the guy hahaha. But either way!
I am soooo freaking bored here at work! :( blaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhh ok i dunno if my advisor will ever show up I am going to say if not by 3pm then whateves I am going home to work out or out to buy a workout tape or something of some sort hahaha. I will lose this damn weight! I'm only 25 lbs from where I was in high school and looking back I was tiny back then (even though of course then you thought you were big haha). But if I continue to lose more weight... NOT going to complain hahaha.
Basically my goal is to get rid of the tummy and leg fat without getting rid of the two B's (boobs and butt :P). But of course its hard to trim down and not affect one or the other. Hmmm off to do some hardcore research on what program I should do...
Man I am SPACING today I was supposed to do some other stuff and I totally get sidetracked hahaha. I have totally been all "ok so if I do... BUTTERFLY! ^_^" hahahaha. Of course no butterflies in my office (or outside its COLD today) but you get my picture hahaha.
I had an... interesting weekend hahaha. I went out Friday night for the first time with girls in like forever to a party then we went out to a dance club where I proceeded to realize that D.C. is mostly girls compared to Philly and not as fun... but then some SUPER drunk guy came up and was dancing with me and proceeded to grab me and try to take me outside!?!?! Um NOT ok dude! Luckily I got down and got my friend to come help me out and we escaped without injuries hahahahah. But then we were on the subway and we were talking to an extremely drunk dude about his girlfriend and how he loves her but she is being a bitch... oh my we were attracting the weirdos that night hahaha. Then I went out to Annapolis on Saturday and we proceeded to find out that they don't accept juvenile licenses there which is lame cause in VA you don't get a new license until 24 or 25... so I still got a few more years to go! Hahaha. Oh well that just meant we went back and drank at the house :D hahahaha. Not a big deal :). I also discovered recently that dating older guys isn't bad or weird but I guess it depends on the guy hahaha. But either way!
I am soooo freaking bored here at work! :( blaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhh ok i dunno if my advisor will ever show up I am going to say if not by 3pm then whateves I am going home to work out or out to buy a workout tape or something of some sort hahaha. I will lose this damn weight! I'm only 25 lbs from where I was in high school and looking back I was tiny back then (even though of course then you thought you were big haha). But if I continue to lose more weight... NOT going to complain hahaha.
Tuesday, June 7, 2011
Beliefs and Dating
One thing that I am finding to be really difficult and interesting about dating is clashing viewpoints. I am not the average girl (it should be woman but girl sounds more catchy haha) in that I'm very liberal and not christian. That has proven to be quite a taxing challenge for me in the dating world. A lot of the guys I am meeting are either racist or against gays or really religious. The thing that started to get to me is what if you really like someone but their beliefs make you want to scream? Or what if they are fine on almost all of your beliefs except one? Does that mean they aren't compatible with you? I dunno, see I went out with a guy recently who I agreed with pretty much 100% until he said one thing that really turned me off. Thing is its about something that he has yet to experience... could he really know what he would do in said situation? Its a mystery I suppose. But then that got me thinking about all the other guys I dated who I thought shared the same beliefs with me and how they lied to me and told me later on it was so my feelings weren't hurt. Well I don't give a shit bluntly. If you don't agree with me and I am a pretty strong person in my beliefs, and you think you can argue with me better/change me the longer we date then you got another thing coming. I prefer to be outright in what is going on, what I believe in, etc etc, and if they don't like it then not a big deal... then it just won't work out... or could it? I dunno I have never successfully dated someone with differing opinions than me. I imagine that as long as the two aren't hard headed its fine but you never know! I mean I'm pretty set on my beliefs and that is that everyone is who they are, I don't judge anyone for their beliefs, no one is wrong except hateful people who "know" they are right. Its kind of like enlightenment... I think that everyone has a right to beleive what they want and there are (almost) always good arguments on every side but at the same time I am firmly a believer in people can be who they want to be, whether a guy who wants to be a woman, a homosexual, a nudist, buddhist, muslim, etc. Plus who wants to live in a boring world where everyone is the same? But now my question is where do you draw the line for dating? When it becomes offensive? But what really is offensive? Can it be an immediate offense and as long as they are not crazy crazy about it its fine? or does it have to be ongoing before you decide this person isn't for you. Also how similar or disimilar should interests be? Hahaha do you date someone with similar interests or someone with completely opposing? I guess it depends on the person really. I mean I don't want to date my twin cause then that'd be boring but at the same time I don't want to be with someone I can't relate to at all.
As you can tell i'm a tad philosophical today and I dunno why. I think I'm having weird thoughts about dating in general and stuff. I can't decide if its cause all the guys out here are jerks and everyone that I have met I'm just not compatible with (exception being maybe last night and a few weeks ago) or if it is that I have been too picky. I think this calls for some religious intervention, circle style! :D I think I need to do another mending a broken heart spell... cause lets face it even though i put on the tough show and all... I'm still hurting from what has been done to me. I mean its a shocker I trust any guy at all (I'm actually wondering if I can even do that) I question what everone says and I overanalyze it thinking they are going to lie but I really shouldn't let all of my rotten apples spoil the bunch, you know? I can't decide what my brain is trying to tell me. I know there is a message there but it is failing to see it. All I have is hope that one day I will know who I am supposed to be with and I know I will love him and have children with him and let my children decide their own paths. I just am ready to settle... I'm tired of dating, its emotionally, mentally, and physically exhausting. I won't settle for anyone though (see previous post) but I do want to find that one person to grow old with and have children with. Quote picture of the day:
Pretty much sums up what I have been feeling. Well I hope someone really catches my attention and shows me that they won't hurt me. Cause I am afraid of being hurt, but for the right person I will overcome that fear again. :)
As you can tell i'm a tad philosophical today and I dunno why. I think I'm having weird thoughts about dating in general and stuff. I can't decide if its cause all the guys out here are jerks and everyone that I have met I'm just not compatible with (exception being maybe last night and a few weeks ago) or if it is that I have been too picky. I think this calls for some religious intervention, circle style! :D I think I need to do another mending a broken heart spell... cause lets face it even though i put on the tough show and all... I'm still hurting from what has been done to me. I mean its a shocker I trust any guy at all (I'm actually wondering if I can even do that) I question what everone says and I overanalyze it thinking they are going to lie but I really shouldn't let all of my rotten apples spoil the bunch, you know? I can't decide what my brain is trying to tell me. I know there is a message there but it is failing to see it. All I have is hope that one day I will know who I am supposed to be with and I know I will love him and have children with him and let my children decide their own paths. I just am ready to settle... I'm tired of dating, its emotionally, mentally, and physically exhausting. I won't settle for anyone though (see previous post) but I do want to find that one person to grow old with and have children with. Quote picture of the day:
Monday, June 6, 2011
Weekend Just for Me! :)
Well I'm glad I did it. I decided that this past weekend I didn't want to go on any dates, didn't want to go out to meet a bunch of people, and so I hung out at my pool all weekend got some awesome sun tan and enjoyed the weather and time for my self... oh and plenty of Assassins Creed (so much so that I dreamt I was an assassin last night *screwy* hahaha.).
I also read the new House of Night novel "Awakened" by P.C. and Kirsten Cast this weekend. I stayed up until 2am finishing it! It was sooooooooooooooo freaking good! And what was actually kinda funny about it was a lot of the love messages it had in it. It made me kinda sad though cause I wished for a little that I was Zoey with a Guardian like Stark or I was Stevie Rae with Rephaim. Ugh why can't I have those strong feelings with someone. Where is my boyfriend!!! Hahahaha.
Oh well I will just have to wait to find him I suppose. Or let him find me :P. Just got to keep reminding myself:
Assay training is going very well! I spilled a few things (oops) but my numbers were spot on! yayyyyyy!!! Now my schedule is opening up hahaha. But that is only because there is not much to do (and she is not here). I'm actually probably done for the day and now i gotta decide what to do... do I stay here and feign work to make an appearance... or do I go home or do I mess around with my literature review... ugh I don't want to mess around with my literature review especially since it is "supposedly" done -_- but at the same time I haven't heard from her in some time so I am wondering if she wants me to continue to add stuff to it... ugh whatever I hope that I do get to switch advisors. I can't all this uncertainty.
I also read the new House of Night novel "Awakened" by P.C. and Kirsten Cast this weekend. I stayed up until 2am finishing it! It was sooooooooooooooo freaking good! And what was actually kinda funny about it was a lot of the love messages it had in it. It made me kinda sad though cause I wished for a little that I was Zoey with a Guardian like Stark or I was Stevie Rae with Rephaim. Ugh why can't I have those strong feelings with someone. Where is my boyfriend!!! Hahahaha.
Oh well I will just have to wait to find him I suppose. Or let him find me :P. Just got to keep reminding myself:
Friday, June 3, 2011
Promises to myself while dating:
1. I will not date a boy, I will only date men (age has nothing to do with this statement; maturity does).
2. I will not date a guy who isn't going places OR thinks that he is done bettering himself.
3. I will not date a close-minded person.
4. I will only date guys who are willing to be patient with me and my schedule.
5. I will only date guys who are capable of committing for the long run.
6. I will only date guys who have no history of either physically or mentally abusing their girlfriends.
7. I will not date a guy who is incapable of making me feel loved or giddy.
8. I will not date a clinger.
9. I will not date someone who can not make me laugh out loud or smile really big when i think of them daily.
10. I will not date someone who has used me or has only one intention of being with me even if they developed feelings for me after the fact.
11. I will not date someone who smokes or does any kind of recreational drug.
12. Drinking is a 2 edged sword, I like to drink but not to the point of black outs, this is the line I want my significant other to share with me.
13. I will always always ALWAYS follow my gut about someone.
14. I will not date someone who doesn't trust me or who constantly analyzes me to their horrible exes or else they will soon assume I will be just like their ex.
15. I will not date a guy who won't talk to me about their job/daily routine.
16. I will not date someone who is afraid of marriage and/or doesn't want kids.
17. I will not date someone who is incapable of being my cheerleader on my rough days.
18. I will not date someone who is unemployed/living with parents/not looking for employment/trust fund baby who thinks they don't have to do anything in life to be successful cause they already are.
19. I will not date people who can not speak or enunciate words properly.
20. I will not date a guy who thinks that money is everything and that it can buy my love.
21. I will not date someone who keeps me guessing on their intentions.
22. I will not date someone who hates music.
23. I will not date someone who can't see the opposition in an arguement.
24. I will not date someone who believes they are always right and can admit defeat when need be but not give up too soon.
25. I will not date someone who does not love themseleves but at the same time is not narcisistic. I want someone who walks the fine line of confidence/love of themselves and egotistical beast.
26. I will not date someone who feels the need to alert the world about their life more than once a day on facebook and also whose posts consist mainly of them failing at finding a love interest
This list was put together by me I may add or delete or tweak it here and there but one of the lovely ladies on MSOS put up hers and it made me think about what I should be doing. I haven't exactly held true to all of these rules for myself but you know I need to shape up and start doing these things for myself! I have been single for over 2 months now and that is INSANE to me hahaha. I usually just hop back into a relationship but now I'm finally seeing that I really need to watch for what I want and if I want to be a sucessful woman in the future I need to find someone who is willing and capable of being my soul mate or my prince charming. I have been talking to several guys that are peaking my interest but I gotta see if there are physical attractions in person. That is the major thing. I don't want to date someone that I don't feel attracted to! Hahaha. I am also being a tad more open minded in dating... as far as background goes. Here is my fave quote I found for today:
I had a great day to myself yesterday :). I played my brand new keyboard and Assassins Creed: Brotherhood alllllllll day yesterday :). I also watched Avatar with my good friend as well :). Its lining up to be a busy weekend with meeting people and hanging out and all sorts of madness! I just hope I can have some time to relaaaaax. This weekend though I am setting my standards down and putting my foot down. I'm done settling! I'm ready to find my prince charming and feel those butterflies again but at the same time... I can wait for the right man... he just has to want to find me too. :)
2. I will not date a guy who isn't going places OR thinks that he is done bettering himself.
3. I will not date a close-minded person.
4. I will only date guys who are willing to be patient with me and my schedule.
5. I will only date guys who are capable of committing for the long run.
6. I will only date guys who have no history of either physically or mentally abusing their girlfriends.
7. I will not date a guy who is incapable of making me feel loved or giddy.
8. I will not date a clinger.
9. I will not date someone who can not make me laugh out loud or smile really big when i think of them daily.
10. I will not date someone who has used me or has only one intention of being with me even if they developed feelings for me after the fact.
11. I will not date someone who smokes or does any kind of recreational drug.
12. Drinking is a 2 edged sword, I like to drink but not to the point of black outs, this is the line I want my significant other to share with me.
13. I will always always ALWAYS follow my gut about someone.
14. I will not date someone who doesn't trust me or who constantly analyzes me to their horrible exes or else they will soon assume I will be just like their ex.
15. I will not date a guy who won't talk to me about their job/daily routine.
16. I will not date someone who is afraid of marriage and/or doesn't want kids.
17. I will not date someone who is incapable of being my cheerleader on my rough days.
18. I will not date someone who is unemployed/living with parents/not looking for employment/trust fund baby who thinks they don't have to do anything in life to be successful cause they already are.
19. I will not date people who can not speak or enunciate words properly.
20. I will not date a guy who thinks that money is everything and that it can buy my love.
21. I will not date someone who keeps me guessing on their intentions.
22. I will not date someone who hates music.
23. I will not date someone who can't see the opposition in an arguement.
24. I will not date someone who believes they are always right and can admit defeat when need be but not give up too soon.
25. I will not date someone who does not love themseleves but at the same time is not narcisistic. I want someone who walks the fine line of confidence/love of themselves and egotistical beast.
26. I will not date someone who feels the need to alert the world about their life more than once a day on facebook and also whose posts consist mainly of them failing at finding a love interest
This list was put together by me I may add or delete or tweak it here and there but one of the lovely ladies on MSOS put up hers and it made me think about what I should be doing. I haven't exactly held true to all of these rules for myself but you know I need to shape up and start doing these things for myself! I have been single for over 2 months now and that is INSANE to me hahaha. I usually just hop back into a relationship but now I'm finally seeing that I really need to watch for what I want and if I want to be a sucessful woman in the future I need to find someone who is willing and capable of being my soul mate or my prince charming. I have been talking to several guys that are peaking my interest but I gotta see if there are physical attractions in person. That is the major thing. I don't want to date someone that I don't feel attracted to! Hahaha. I am also being a tad more open minded in dating... as far as background goes. Here is my fave quote I found for today:
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I had a great day to myself yesterday :). I played my brand new keyboard and Assassins Creed: Brotherhood alllllllll day yesterday :). I also watched Avatar with my good friend as well :). Its lining up to be a busy weekend with meeting people and hanging out and all sorts of madness! I just hope I can have some time to relaaaaax. This weekend though I am setting my standards down and putting my foot down. I'm done settling! I'm ready to find my prince charming and feel those butterflies again but at the same time... I can wait for the right man... he just has to want to find me too. :)
Wednesday, June 1, 2011
Got some bling! :P hahaha
Got my nose pierced with my best gal pal who decided last minute to come visit me from DE! Man was that a fun day just to hang out, get the toes done, go fight with a radio shack about how they suck at customer service and finally end it with the piercing! It hurt a little at first but you know what I think I look HAWT in it so I'm not going to complain for as little as I paid for great GREAT service. Could tell the piercer really knew what he was doing! Ultimately i am very happy with the piercing and my mom actually said it looked great! Hahaha that was a surprise for sure but I think since its sooooo subtle it just adds to my beauty ;). Hahahaha but I do think that once it heals up I will change it for a hoop for concerts and keep a stud in it for other occassions. I like the subtleness of my stud :D. hehehe.
My meeting with the committee.. well... we'll just say it was frustrating but I stood up for myself for sure. I still have yet to hear from my advisor about my literature review which is frustrating the hell out of me! But you know its to be expected I guess. :-\ I'm still waiting to hear if i'm getting a new advisor or not... its been so crazy and hectic... now all I'm doing at work is working on training in the lab and I haven't heard her tell me other wise so I guess my literature review is to her liking finally. Although I just want to switch and get it over with I don't mind working for her in her lab... but i can't be her student any more... I'm so uninformed and so misused that it just drives me up the wall in this lab.
Oh well no matter... birthday countdown begins today! Wooooooot!!! I can't waiiiiit although nothing is going to happen for my birthday i'm sure :-\ except experiments and stuff. But you know maybe i'll be pleasantly surprised :D. Maybe I'll meet my prince charming by then ;). I have really surprised myself as far as love goes... I still have yet found someone that makes me happy although now i'm deciding if i'm being too picky or if its I'm finally going with my gut and letting the person come to me who i really want... know what i mean? I mean i haven't even really noticed the fact that i don't have a boyfriend... it doesn't bother me this time... i think its cause i'm so busy in general and busy going out on dates but at the same time... meh I dunno... all I know is I am happy with where i am at currently and I'm going to continue to only follow the path that makes me happy. Thats what its all about right? I will find the right guy here eventually... I just gotta kiss a few toads before I find that one special one! :D
Well I'm going to head home early... it appears my lab is not going to get reviewed/i don't want to be reviewed cause i know nothing about the protocols and such and i don't want to be the reason the school doesn't get accredited hahaha. Off to apartment hunt and keyboard hunt! Awaaaaaayyyyyyyyyy hahaha. :P
Oh and I got my first soldier to write to from Soldier's Angels! Yayyyyyy i can't wait! I may go get some cute stationary while i'm out too... i need stamps too! I know i have some just wherrrrrrrrreeeeeee????
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My meeting with the committee.. well... we'll just say it was frustrating but I stood up for myself for sure. I still have yet to hear from my advisor about my literature review which is frustrating the hell out of me! But you know its to be expected I guess. :-\ I'm still waiting to hear if i'm getting a new advisor or not... its been so crazy and hectic... now all I'm doing at work is working on training in the lab and I haven't heard her tell me other wise so I guess my literature review is to her liking finally. Although I just want to switch and get it over with I don't mind working for her in her lab... but i can't be her student any more... I'm so uninformed and so misused that it just drives me up the wall in this lab.
Oh well no matter... birthday countdown begins today! Wooooooot!!! I can't waiiiiit although nothing is going to happen for my birthday i'm sure :-\ except experiments and stuff. But you know maybe i'll be pleasantly surprised :D. Maybe I'll meet my prince charming by then ;). I have really surprised myself as far as love goes... I still have yet found someone that makes me happy although now i'm deciding if i'm being too picky or if its I'm finally going with my gut and letting the person come to me who i really want... know what i mean? I mean i haven't even really noticed the fact that i don't have a boyfriend... it doesn't bother me this time... i think its cause i'm so busy in general and busy going out on dates but at the same time... meh I dunno... all I know is I am happy with where i am at currently and I'm going to continue to only follow the path that makes me happy. Thats what its all about right? I will find the right guy here eventually... I just gotta kiss a few toads before I find that one special one! :D
Well I'm going to head home early... it appears my lab is not going to get reviewed/i don't want to be reviewed cause i know nothing about the protocols and such and i don't want to be the reason the school doesn't get accredited hahaha. Off to apartment hunt and keyboard hunt! Awaaaaaayyyyyyyyyy hahaha. :P
Oh and I got my first soldier to write to from Soldier's Angels! Yayyyyyy i can't wait! I may go get some cute stationary while i'm out too... i need stamps too! I know i have some just wherrrrrrrrreeeeeee????
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