2. I will not date a guy who isn't going places OR thinks that he is done bettering himself.
3. I will not date a close-minded person.
4. I will only date guys who are willing to be patient with me and my schedule.
5. I will only date guys who are capable of committing for the long run.
6. I will only date guys who have no history of either physically or mentally abusing their girlfriends.
7. I will not date a guy who is incapable of making me feel loved or giddy.
8. I will not date a clinger.
9. I will not date someone who can not make me laugh out loud or smile really big when i think of them daily.
10. I will not date someone who has used me or has only one intention of being with me even if they developed feelings for me after the fact.
11. I will not date someone who smokes or does any kind of recreational drug.
12. Drinking is a 2 edged sword, I like to drink but not to the point of black outs, this is the line I want my significant other to share with me.
13. I will always always ALWAYS follow my gut about someone.
14. I will not date someone who doesn't trust me or who constantly analyzes me to their horrible exes or else they will soon assume I will be just like their ex.
15. I will not date a guy who won't talk to me about their job/daily routine.
16. I will not date someone who is afraid of marriage and/or doesn't want kids.
17. I will not date someone who is incapable of being my cheerleader on my rough days.
18. I will not date someone who is unemployed/living with parents/not looking for employment/trust fund baby who thinks they don't have to do anything in life to be successful cause they already are.
19. I will not date people who can not speak or enunciate words properly.
20. I will not date a guy who thinks that money is everything and that it can buy my love.
21. I will not date someone who keeps me guessing on their intentions.
22. I will not date someone who hates music.
23. I will not date someone who can't see the opposition in an arguement.
24. I will not date someone who believes they are always right and can admit defeat when need be but not give up too soon.
25. I will not date someone who does not love themseleves but at the same time is not narcisistic. I want someone who walks the fine line of confidence/love of themselves and egotistical beast.
26. I will not date someone who feels the need to alert the world about their life more than once a day on facebook and also whose posts consist mainly of them failing at finding a love interest
This list was put together by me I may add or delete or tweak it here and there but one of the lovely ladies on MSOS put up hers and it made me think about what I should be doing. I haven't exactly held true to all of these rules for myself but you know I need to shape up and start doing these things for myself! I have been single for over 2 months now and that is INSANE to me hahaha. I usually just hop back into a relationship but now I'm finally seeing that I really need to watch for what I want and if I want to be a sucessful woman in the future I need to find someone who is willing and capable of being my soul mate or my prince charming. I have been talking to several guys that are peaking my interest but I gotta see if there are physical attractions in person. That is the major thing. I don't want to date someone that I don't feel attracted to! Hahaha. I am also being a tad more open minded in dating... as far as background goes. Here is my fave quote I found for today:
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I had a great day to myself yesterday :). I played my brand new keyboard and Assassins Creed: Brotherhood alllllllll day yesterday :). I also watched Avatar with my good friend as well :). Its lining up to be a busy weekend with meeting people and hanging out and all sorts of madness! I just hope I can have some time to relaaaaax. This weekend though I am setting my standards down and putting my foot down. I'm done settling! I'm ready to find my prince charming and feel those butterflies again but at the same time... I can wait for the right man... he just has to want to find me too. :)
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